Thursday, September 06, 2007

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last year, i wrote about a family friend who found out he had leukemia. he's been fighting the disease, overcoming one obstacle at a time for an entire year! it's incredible to think about how one's life changes when such a thing becomes the center of attention. everything you do, think about, talk about revolves around the disease. and how do you come to terms with the fact that you're 30, recently married, finally a full-fledged doctor after years of training, and you might not make it past the next couple of years. both he and his family have done an awesome job maintaining a support system for each other and even reached out to people to spread awareness about the disease and what people can do to help. it's this circle of family and friends that fuels the energy for this long drawn out battle.

things have taken a turn for the worse, and my thoughts go out to him and his family. unfortunately, i haven't done much besides sending a card or two in support, and all this makes orthopedics seem a bit trivial. i know that they'll find it within themselves the strength to continue fighting, and i hope he pulls through in the end.

if you're interested in their story, here is their blog.

3 Comments:

At 6/9/07 21:17, Blogger lily said...

orthopedics is not trivial. it may not be life or death, but it helps ppl avoid pain and be happy. you shouldn't rank doctors. you're all useful. very useful (well, maybe not plastic surgeons--unless its for burn victims or something).

 
At 7/9/07 01:07, Blogger aTong said...

you're right. living in pain and discomfort is just as bad maybe worse than being dead. maybe if plastic surgery makes people happier, it is justifiable. i'm a little skeptical as to how much it better it really makes someone feel about themselves.

ortho is not trivial. i think i'm starting to change my mind about going into it though. i think i need the emotional fix that maybe ortho can't provide. it's the same reason i like watching SVU, and those indie films. they open you up to more human emotions. it keeps me grounded so i have a better perspective on what's going on in the world. maybe it's because i don't want to be stuck in a bubble and not be aware of how lucky i am and how much other people are suffering. guilt complex?

 
At 9/9/07 23:29, Blogger lily said...

atong! i want you to be ortho for very selfish reasons. fix my knees! plus, dealing with that kind of sadness daily is very different from watching a movie...are you sure that's what you want? are you sure it won't just make you jaded?

 

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